BEST KEPT HOSTING SECRET

I love to talk from a point of how I feel because our emotions are very valid. They are what makes us human, the core of who we are, especially when no one else is around, you know! The real you! I highly doubt ignoring the real you is a wise thing to do.

And so, I FEEL like women yearn more to be awesome hosts than men ever do, of course unless he is trying to impress a girl he has the hots for!! Anyway, there's a pride, warmth and softness in heart that comes with seeing your guests being so pleasantly indulged in what you have set before them.  But, we all know hosting is no walk in the park and moreover, most times, there's no feedback to your end on whether you actually did a great job, especially if your guests that day happened to be indifferent faced people. 

So from one host to another, I figured we could make use of sick people whenever we get the chance. I know, that didn't come out right?! But you'll get it in a moment. You know how cumbersome it is to feed a sick person, they barely know what they want and when they do, it's something from planet Mars. Their appetite is so grumpy, you have to go far lengths to employ colour, style, length e.t.c, all in the name of presentation.

I took 5 minutes more than the usual to get this one out to play!!

 

They want it quick, at a particular unattainable temperature sometimes, you're practically on your toes every passing minute. 

Now, if you can get a sick person to eat and enjoy their dine, evidenced by an empty plate maybe? Or asking for more maybe? Or having a lighter face maybe? I know mine this afternoon enjoyed his fruit salad even when on a normal day, he would have to be dragged to have just one mouthful! 

If you can get these hard nuts to crack, then you have passed the litmus test for a perfect host or hostess. Infact, I believe by this time, you would be overqualified. Your ambition to be a host box would finally be checked.